What it means to be an effective teacher.
Creating,
maintaining, and constantly working on relationships with students is one of
the most important aspects of being an effective teacher. Not only has this been shown to effectively
help in classroom management, but it also enables teachers to get to know their
students on a more personal level and vice versa. I’ve already spoken to the point on how
showing students that you are there for them and creating an environment which
promotes open communication is an essential part of being an effective teacher,
but I also think that it takes a teacher to want
to be aware and find out how their students are doing outside of their
classroom in order to establish strong relationships with their students inside
of their classroom.
Another
aspect of forming student-teacher relationships is about being aware of what is
going on in your students’ lives, or being “in-the-know” about what is going on
in the school. This information can be
as simple as knowing about which students are playing afterschool in an
extra-curricular soccer game and knowing which students are involved in the art
at the school this weekend. Simply by
asking those seeming unimportant questions like “how did the game go yesterday,
I heard you guys won?”, or “how did the show go this weekend, did you learn a
lot?”, you are helping to forge new relationships and expand old ones with your
students.
Just recently I had a personal
experience with this when I was teaching at St. Michael’s University School in
February, 2012. Of course coming into a boy’s
grade ten physical education class for only three days was quite intimidating
for my first teaching experience in a high school; it’s difficult to form good
relationships with your students in such a short period of time. Needless to say, the first class could have
gone better as far as classroom management is concerned. However, from my own experiences I knew how
important it was for me to try and form some sort of relationship with these
boys if I wanted to have a lesson run smoothly, whether it was just letting
them know that I’m interested in what they’re doing or simply by acknowledging
that, as a teacher, I see them as an individual and not simply as just another
student. Luckily for me, there were
about nine boys in the class of fifteen that played on the basketball team that
happened to be playing that night. The
next day I came into the class with slightly more confidence and a whole new
game-plan. I let the boys have the first
ten minutes of the class as a “free play” time where they could do what they
wanted in the gym, then I began going over to each small group and asking them
about their game the previous night. The
response I got from the students was incredible! They could see that I was taking an interest
in what they were doing outside of the class simply because I wanted to and
that made all of the different to them; the lesson that day ran much more
smoothly than it had the previous day. On
the final day of my student teaching I actually had some of the boys come into
class early! I had five boys, all of
whom the first day I had labelled as the “trouble makers” of the class,
actually willingly come to the gym and play around with me until the rest of
the class joined. We chatted about their
upcoming basketball game, the school rugby trip that was over Spring Break, and
what they each had planned for the weekend.
My third and final lesson could not have run better. The change in the classroom management,
enjoyment, and overall tone of class changed dramatically over only three
simple lessons; I couldn’t believe what a difference it had made in just three
days.
I think that although being
aware of the simple things going on in your students’ lives is incredibly
important in forming and maintaining relationships with your students it’s also
essential to be aware of the more serious issues that some of your students may
be facing outside of your classroom, such as bullying, a parents’ divorce, a
death in the family, or others. Sometime
this information might be more difficult to come by so that’s why it’s also
important to have two of the previous characteristics I spoke to, availability
and accommodation, in order to provide students with a safe environment which
they feel they can come and speak with you as a teacher.
I think that it’s important to
remember that your students want to be treated as individuals and not just as “another
student” in your classroom. By showing
students interest your allowing them to see that you appreciate that they are
an individual person who you care about; this also shows students that you are
a teacher are also an individual and not simply “just a teacher”. By taking the initiative to form
relationships with your students you are helping to create a more comfortable
and enjoyable classroom setting and learning environment for everyone.